And, then, that brings us to today...
I was getting really close, but couldn't ever get it started, just some coughing, sputtering, all that, but no roar and rattle to life.... it was then that i realized I had actually set the timing off of the wrong cylinder...

I had looked at the order of the wires in the clips on the valve cover, not realizing that the wires for the #1 and #3 swapped places between there and the spark plugs....
A quick lift and move operation, and the next time I turned the key, she started to come to life.
Still need to adjust the valves (they're really clacky right now, I left them pretty loose after doing the valve grind)... A little carb adjusting, and actually set the timing, but overall, she's sounding and running great.
Here's the proof:
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